Showing posts with label Father's Day tribute. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Father's Day tribute. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 11, 2025

Dad and the Acacia Tree


Where I grew up in rural Northern California, the four seasons were not sharply defined like they are here in the Ozarks. Most of the trees were evergreens, predominately redwoods, which didn't have noticeable seasonal changes; our seasons were defined more subtly. Summer was squealing with shock as we dipped into the frigid Smith River, and riding Larry Johnson's donkey, Joe. In the evenings, after dinner, we'd play softball with friends from the neighborhood, disbanding reluctantly at dusk when we could scarcely see home plate. 

Fall would begin with a familiar knot in my stomach at the loss of freedom. Then, I'd settle into the routine of math competitions, science projects, and history class with the handsome Mr. Vernon. 

But there was always something magical about spring. Spring was riding my bike to the beach down Moorehead Road, past the fields of cows and the handmade sign, For Sale - Red Wriggler Fish worms. Spring was the hum of bees, the fragrance of wildflowers on the wind, and the feeling that things were all right with the world.

In my world, spring was also defined by the acacia tree. My family lived in the parsonage behind the town's only church. In the front yard of the church was a vast acacia tree. It was a perfect tree for climbing, its massive limbs reaching so low that all but the very youngest of us could manage to scramble up and perch there after church. The limbs were covered with tiny holes, which, at the time, I thought were characteristic of acacia trees. I have since realized they were the work of woodpeckers and may have indicated something about the health of the tree. Whatever its condition, it always managed to put on a grand display in the spring when its tiny blossoms, like miniature yellow tennis balls, covered the tree, garnering the attention of everyone in town. 


My father, besides being the pastor, also acted as a groundskeeper. When he determined the tree was no longer safe, he cut it down without any notice, an act that managed to anger a significant part of the congregation and much of the community. But Dad was never too concerned about public opinion. He may have seemed impulsive at times, but he had probably been thinking about that tree for a long time. Dad didn't want to get into an extensive discussion about it or have a committee formed to study the implications of such an action. And he certainly didn't want to see any children get hurt.


One way or another, people managed to get over the loss, and nobody could stay mad at Dad for long. He was just too fun to be around. His laughter would fill a room like the aroma of mom's Sunday pot roast.

After all these years, I've decided that, besides keeping the church kids safe, my father did us all a favor by cutting down that old acacia tree. He reminded us that nothing here on earth, not even things of exquisite beauty, are permanent. Centuries ago, the prophet Isaiah said it best:


"The grass withers and the flowers fall,

because the breath of the Lord blows on them.

Surely the people are grass.

The grass withers and the flowers fall,

but the word of our God endures forever."

Isaiah 40:7, 8


In a world of falling blossoms, it's good to know that the God whose word endures is the One who loves us deeply, who sent His only Son so we can live.


And this is the testimony:

God has given us eternal life,

and this life is in His Son.

1 John 5:11



First published on March 20, 2011

Sunday, June 19, 2016

A Tribute to Dad


Ray Gustafson, my dad, on a fishing trip


When I was a rookie free-lance artist, Dad overheard a telephone conversation between an art director and me in which I was hesitating about taking an assignment. I finally decided to take the job, and when I got off the phone, Dad asked, “What were you hemming and hawing about?” “Dad,” I said, “I’m not sure I know how to do it.” That’s when Dad gave me the best advice of my career. He said, “Why don’t you just take the assignments and then learn how to do them?”

Dad lived his life that way—without fear or hesitation. When he was pastor of a church in Vancouver, Washington, he took on the task of renovating the church building, and, with the help of some other volunteers, did a beautiful job. Nobody told him he wasn’t a builder.

Later, when Dad was pastoring in Fort Dick, California, he saw the need for a Christian School, so he found a way to get one set up, and served as principal of a thriving school for several years.

More recently, Dad stepped into his most challenging role as caregiver to Mom, when her body and memory were failing, and we saw in him a patience we didn’t know he possessed.

Dad was always intensely interested in heaven, and even more so after Mom went there in July, 2007. Shortly before he joined her, he told me, “I think about heaven all the time; that’s all I think about”. (This was, of course, after the Superbowl and before March Madness.)

Dad loved the words of Jesus:

“Let not your heart be troubled;
You believe in God, believe also in Me.
In my Father’s house are many mansions:
if it were not so, I would have told you.
I go to prepare a place for you.
And if I go and prepare a place for you,
I will come again and receive you unto Myself,
that where I am, 
there you may be also.”

John 14:1-3

I am forever grateful that God gave me this father, and I look forward to seeing him again one day. If he could share with us today about what’s really important in this life, he might quote the words of the Apostle Paul:

So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, 
but on what is unseen.
For what is seen is temporary,
but what is unseen is eternal.

2 Corinthians 4:18